The Oprah Phenomenon

Last week, Oprah took her final victory lap after 25 hugely successful years of The Oprah Winfrey Show. Friends and fans gave her a blow-out farewell party to celebrate her legacy and the global following she has acquired (a reach of 150 countries). They also put front and center strong evidence of the powerful impact she has had on women and girls that should not go unnoticed by us.

A cluster of young girls, calling themselves “Oprah Show babies” and describing her as “the sound track of our lives,” offered up a litany of evidence that was quite moving to hear.

“Oprah, because of you, I love to read books.”  “I’ve learned to stick to my beliefs and not let anyone change who I am.”  “Your show taught me to take better care of myself.  I’m thirteen and I’ve lost 20 pounds.”  “My mom and I watched your show every day together. I was only 14 when she died and I know she would want me to continue to learn from you.”  “Oprah you helped me lift the shame of being abused and taught me that it wasn’t my fault. Thank you.”  “We’ve learned from the Oprah Show that we’re enough, that we matter, that our lives have value.”  “Because if you every morning I look in the mirror and say, ‘Good morning gorgeous!'” “Oprah, I learned from you that I can be anything I want. Like the president of the United States.”  “Because of you, we believe girls can run the world!”

Singer, actress, Beyoncé chimed in, “Because of you, women everywhere have graduated to a new level of understanding of what we are, of who we are, and most of all who we can be”—extraordinary praise of Oprah’s impact on women, (although the provocative dance routine that followed made me wonder just how much of Oprah’s message Beyoncé has actually grasped).

In her post, “Filling the Oprah Void,” author Caryn Dahlstrand Rivadeneira points out that one of the reasons for Oprah’s significant contributions has been her fearless openness in discussing painful subjects of interest to women and raising those subjects to new levels of seriousness.  Caryn writes,

“Oprah understood the power of speaking truth as a method of healing. And, for all the people who criticize us for being a talk-show culture, ever-keen on spilling our guts, there are many more entirely set free by knowing we are not alone in our troubles.”

While I welcome Oprah’s undeniably positive influence on many lives, at the same time I grieve the fact that instead of taking the lead in giving women and girls a bigger vision of who God created them to be (and, trust me, we do have such a message—even better than what Oprah has to offer), the Christian community is lagging woefully behind. And why is it that we are so often in catch-up-mode in addressing subjects that are painful realities in the lives of countless women and girls?  Shouldn’t we be first?

We can sit on the sidelines and criticize Oprah for what her message lacks or for the flaws in her  theology. Or we can ask ourselves if girls (and for that matter, boys too) in the church are saying, “Because I am God’s image bearer, I know my life counts, I have value, I can change the world.” “You helped me lift the shame of being abused and taught me it wasn’t my fault.” “The church has graduated women to to a new level of understanding of what we are, of who we are, and most of all who we can be”?

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Midday Connection Series Continues …

Every week, I look forward to talking about Half the Church on Midday Connection with one or both of these two—Anita Lustrea (left) and Melinda Schmidt (right).  We’re coming down the home stretch, and I’m already dreading the day when this series will be over and I won’t have my weekly Anita/Melinda shot. Both are solid thinkers and amazing interviewers who don’t frustrate their guests with shallow discussions about their work. I’m grateful to have them as friends.

Next chapter on tap is The Blessed Alliance—the partnership between God’s male and female image bearers—a central kingdom strategy God unveiled in the beginning, that the Enemy broke up in the fall, and that Jesus came to recover by making his followers one.

Midday Connection airs daily at 1:00 ET/noon CT. You can listen online or check their website for local listings.  If you missed a previous broadcast, they’re filed by date, and you can listen here to catch up.

  • April 6:     Introduction—Seeing Beyond Ourselves
  • April 13:   Chapter 1Going Global  (I was in the Moody Radio studio for this session and got caught on video, which Midday has posted on FaceBook.) 
  • April 20:  Chapter 2Identity Theft 
  • April 27:  Chapter 3—Bearing God’s Image in a Broken World  
  • May 4:      Chapter 4The Shaping of a Leader’s Soul 
  • May 11:    Chapter 5The Ezer Unbound 
  • May 18:    Chapter 6Here Comes the Bride! 
  • May 25:    Chapter 7—The Blessed Alliance
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A Kingdom Vision


“God’s vision [for his daughters] doesn’t just reassure us that we matter and that our lives do count for something. God’s vision compels us to look beyond ourselves, to ponder a picture of how things were meant to be that leaves us aching for his will to be done on earth as it is in heaven, and to look for ways to participate in moving the world toward that goal.”

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Where do you start?

One of the fundamental questions facing anyone attempting to unpack the Bible’s message for women is “Where do you start?” Every view on women has biblical passages that don’t fit easily within their system. So choices are made to give some texts more weight than others and to interpret those other texts within the framework of these starting point texts.

In Half the Church, my starting point is God’s vision of his daughters (which he casts in Genesis 1 and 2) as image bearers, ezer-warriors, and half of the Blessed Alliance. I read everything else the Bible has to say about women through that grid.

In this video, Professor N.T. Wright answers the “Where do you start?” question from the New Testament as it applies to women’s gifts and ministries in the church. His response is similar to what Scot McKnight asked of the Bible in his book, Blue Parakeet with the acronym WDWD—”What Did Women Do?”  In the passages Dr. Wright selects, WDWD carries added weight because of the men who are in the picture.

Situating the passages Dr. Wright references within the ancient patriarchal culture has the effect of placing an exclamation point beside both narratives. The main actors in these texts are the two leading figures in the establishment of Christianity—Jesus and the Apostle Paul.

Paul, the writer of Romans 16, is a recovering Pharisee and a former religious terrorist who in his pre-Christian days posed a terrible threat to followers of Jesus. It was in his cultural DNA to keep his distance even from Jewish women, especially in public. Yet here he is singing the praises of Gentile women leaders and openly declaring his reliance upon their ministries with and to him. Go figure!

According to John 20, had Jesus timed things a little differently, he could have commissioned the great apostles Peter and John to be the first gospel proclaimers of his resurrection. Instead, he waited to give Mary Magdalene that privilege, in a culture where the testimony of a woman was not accepted in a court of law.

“Where do you start?” is a crucial question everyone must answer.  What do you make of Dr. Wright’s response?

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Connecting Faith

I’m looking forward to another great opportunity to discuss Half the Church today, this time with radio host Michelle Strombeck. The  interview airs on Faith Radio’s program Connecting Faith.

You can listen live online at 1:00 pm ET/noon CT here or dial in to KTIS-AM  Minneapolis/St. Paul.

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Resurrection!

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Broken Body Made Whole

I never will forget the first Anglican service I attended, when someone looked me squarely in the eye, handed me the bread, and spoke these powerfully personal words: “This is the Body of Christ which was broken for you.”

I thought my legs were going to buckle.

But a whole body, not a broken one, was the trajectory of Jesus’ ministry.  Even before he was broken, he envisioned his body restored, healthy, and whole, where his male and female image bearers—young and old, rich and poor, from every tongue and tribe and nation—coalesce into one healthy, vigorous, fully functioning, interdependent Body of Christ.

The brand of oneness Jesus restores among his male and female image bearers doesn’t depend on sameness—which is what most of us in the Body of Christ keep thinking and why oneness seems perpetually beyond our reach.

“The oneness God envisions doesn’t erase individuality, but actually benefits from and is enriched by their differences. But the oneness for which they are created doesn’t leave God out; rather, it finds its center in him. What unleashes the kingdom potency and the enormous good of this male/female oneness is when, like an astronomical syzygy where gravity pulls three celestial bodies into a straight line, the two of them align with God.

Half the Church

Jesus’ body was broken to end hostility, division, estrangement, injustice, and violence within the human race.  His body is not supposed to remain broken, but to be restored—interconnected into an other-worldly oneness that captures the world’s attention leaves them marveling, “See how they love one another!”

Jesus’ body was broken so that his body might be made whole and that the world might know he has come. That was his prayer for us—

“that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me.” 

—John 17:21
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Is God Good for Women?

Last week, in a well-known Christian college, a Bible professor stated unequivocally to his class that “Men are created in the image of God, but women are created in the image of man.” His assertion is a flat denial of what is stated plainly on page one of the Bible, but unfortunately has long roots that can be traced back to early church fathers, including the revered St. Augustine, and has done enormous damage. I remember the first time I heard anyone say, “God created both women and men in his image.” I was in my twenties, had grown up in the church, and this was news to me.

The comment made by former President Jimmy Carter (a Bible-believing Christian) linking religion to the global epidemic of discrimination against women (posted here), coupled with the boatload of criticisms former Christian Paula Kirby unloads against Christianity in her article “Religion lies about women” (posted here) confronts the church with questions that are neither unfair nor manufactured.

To the contrary, both are raising legitimate questions about biblical texts, traditional interpretations, and widespread practices, and they are not the only ones who are asking. Historically, and still today, the church’s teachings and practices have opened the door, if not directly contributed, to discrimination against women. We need to be honest about that. Countless women and men both outside and inside the church know this to be true, including many former Christians who, like Kirby, have vacated the church.

Kirby’s article will (and should) make Christians squirm. But this is not a moment for dismissive remarks or clever counterattack. The offenses bundled up in the phrase “discrimination against women” are real and range from polite to sinister. Globally they encompass unspeakable suffering, violent atrocities, and deadly consequences for countless women and girls. If you want to put things in perspective, read Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn’s bestselling book, Half the Sky. In fact, Half the Sky challenged me to examine the relevance of the Bible’s message for women and girls in this century, and my findings resulted in Half the Church: Recapturing God’s Global Vision for Women.

Kirby is raising important questions and deserves to be taken seriously. At a minimum, the church loses credibility in the world and squanders vital human resources God designed to bless the world when we embrace a weak, guarded, and small message for women within our ranks. This alone is reason enough to engage the issues Kirby is raising. Her article opens a window of opportunity the church has responsibility to engage. Her honest questions are not sidebars to the Christian faith, but central to the gospel we embrace. Nothing quite outrages God and his prophets like abuse of power and injustices against women, the poor, and the foreigner. Christians today should be on the forefront in addressing the slightest hint of oppression both inside and outside the church. Kirby’s questions challenge the church’s ability to speak into the lives of women in the twenty-first century with relevance and a message that empowers women to live fully and that promotes their flourishing in today’s world. It’s a fair question: Is the good news of the gospel truly good news for women too?

I have been asking these questions for years, not as an outsider, but as a committed Christian woman. This discussion isn’t academic for me. These issues touch down in my life and in the lives of women and girls globally in deeply personal, everyday practical ways. They shape our choices, limit or expand our horizons, and impact how we see ourselves and our place in God’s world. They have a profound effect on our marriages and on our interactions with men.

Difficult and debated texts in the Bible are not peripheral to this discussion. But the search for answers must also include examining the big picture of Scripture—God’s vision for us in the beginning that Jesus came to restore. Rather than build our understanding of God’s calling for his daughters solely on disputed Scripture passages, it is important to examine the lives of women in Scripture to see what God actually calls women to do and how they join their believing brothers in recovering God’s kingdom vision for the world and to consider how consistently Jesus went against the culture in his interactions with women.

Stories of women in the Bible must be viewed within their cultural context, for they occur within an ancient patriarchal culture—a world that is foreign to Western American culture, but has more in common with countries in today’s Middle East. In patriarchy, sons are prized and daughters don’t count. Kirby is correct in noting how few women appear on the pages of the Bible—in all, approximately ten percent of the characters in the Bible are female. Female names rarely appear in genealogies. Daughters are married off and leave to build another man’s house. But a man is nothing and his line is cut off if he is without sons. The Bible’s message is cast in sharp relief against that cultural backdrop, making the stories of women in the Bible leap off the pages with surprising twenty-first century relevance.

What follows here is just the tip of the iceberg. But these biblical texts are as authoritative as the disputed texts and need to be included in this discussion.

In the Genesis creation narrative, I read that God created “male and female in his image and likeness.” Every woman born is God’s image bearer—an identity that confers enormous dignity and purpose on every woman and girl and comes with heavy leadership responsibility to speak and act as God’s representatives in the world. In fact, there is no higher view of women possible than the call to be like God. We are called to embrace God’s heart for the world and to be active agents of justice, compassion, and good for others. This is indisputable.

From creation, I learn that when God created his male and female image bearers “he blessed them,” then spread before them the whole earth, commanding them to “be fruitful and multiply,” to “rule and subdue.” These commands point beyond merely populating the earth to live fruitful, productive lives, not to ruling and subduing each other, but to governing the whole earth together for their mutual flourishing. Male and female are God’s A-Team—called to forge a Blessed Alliance to reclaim territory and people the Enemy holds captive, to push back the darkness, and to build God’s kingdom together. Even Wall Street is seeing the wisdom of men and women working together, as they wonder if we’d be in the current financial crisis if Lehman Brothers had been Lehman Brothers and Sisters. God created male and female to cultivate, utilize, and steward earth’s vast resources for the good of all and to do it together. This is indisputable.

Naomi is a childless post-menopausal widow—a female Job figure who in the patriarchal culture lives at the bottom of the social ladder. Yet God recruits Naomi to become the wise mentor of the king’s grandfather. She draws deep wisdom about God from the school of suffering and teaches us that no matter what shape our lives are in or how little others may think of us, God never counts us out. Kingdom building is a lifelong occupation, and sometimes God is advancing his kingdom in big ways through the efforts of the least among us. This is indisputable.

Through Naomi’s gentile daughter-in-law Ruth, God call his daughters to take responsibility for the needs around us, to live boldly, take risks, fearlessly initiate solutions, and advocate for others even when it means moving out of our comfort zone to engage and challenge the thinking of those in positions of authority over us. This is indisputable.

God raises up Deborah, Hannah, Esther, and countless others as role models for all women, reminding us that he is accomplishing great things through his daughters—shaping nations, instructing kings, and enriching the church with the theology, wisdom, and strength of women both in the past and also today. These women also remind our brothers that they can’t build God’s kingdom without us. This is indisputable.

Add Jesus to these stories. A distinctive of Jesus’ ministry was a radical counter-cultural activism for women. As a rabbi, he violated the status quo that frowned on teaching women by publicly defending their right to learn, openly teaching them himself, and giving them strategic leadership responsibilities as his disciples. He was proactive on behalf of widows, gave top priority to daughters in a patriarchal culture that favored sons, turned the finger of blame away from a woman caught in adultery to confront her self-righteous male accusers, and entrusted women as witnesses and spokespersons for his gospel in a culture that refused to admit female testimony in a court of law. This is indisputable.

Jesus sobers me with his parable of the talents. It’s a serious matter to Jesus when we bury our gifts and talents in the ground instead of employing and investing them for his kingdom. This is indisputable.

Even the Apostle Paul corroborates Jesus’ message by employing the language of anatomy to underscore the fact that women are vital members of the body of Christ, that the whole body needs our gifts and ministries, and that it is hindered if we withhold them. This is indisputable.

Although none of this settles the questions posed by President Carter and Paula Kirby, I want to invite the conversation they provoke by adding more fodder to a discussion I welcome and am convinced the church needs to engage. Women make up half the church and in many places more than half. A lot is at stake in the issues being raised.

So let’s have that conversation.

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Headin’ for "Big D"

Just back from an amazing packed five days in Chicago and, next week, I’m back on the road again—this time in Dallas for another packed week of events.

See information and links below and learn about more freebies. If you live anywhere near Dallas, I hope you’ll think seriously about coming to one or more of these events.

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Christian Leadership Alliance Conference 
Tuesday-Thursday, April 26-28

FullFill is partnering with CLA to present this year’s conference.

I’ll be speaking 2 times, plus a workshop. You can learn more about the conference here.

Sign up with the code FFCLA11, and you’ll receive FREE copies of Elisa Morgan’s book, She Did What She Could and the study guide that goes with it.

And by the way, if you aren’t already subscribed to FullFill’s online magazine, you should. It’s FREE too. It includes lots of thoughtful articles, including my column called { Think }.

Check out the latest issue (and subscribe) here.

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Life Today television interview with James Robison
Tuesday, April 26, 7:00 p.m.

If you’re free Tuesday evening and you live in the Dallas area, I’d really love to see some friends in the audience. They’re offering FREE tickets to attend.  The following invitation is from LIFE Today:

“You’re invited to be in the studio audience for the appearance of Carolyn Custis James on the LIFE Today show with James Robison, Tuesday, April 26 at 7 p.m. For your FREE tickets email audience@loi.org or call 817-354-3655.”

Location:  1801 West Euless Boulevard
                 Euless, Texas 76040

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Half the Church Book Launch Hosted by Women’s Ministries
Park Cities Presbyterian Church
Thursday, April 28, 7-8:00 p.m.

I’m looking forward to talking about my new book, Half the Church. This gathering is open to the public. No reservations are required.

For more information, go here, or contact Laurie Butterfield, 214-224-2722.

Location:  4124 Oak Lawn Avenue

                 Dallas, TX 75219

                

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News Updates!

The FREE download of The Gospel of Ruth, Kindle edition, is still on. If you don’t have a Kindle, download the FREE version of Kindle PC and read books on your computer.

Also the Kindle editions of When Life and Beliefs Collide and Lost Women of the Bible are both still available at $3.99 each. 

The Midday Connection interview series on Half the Church, hosted by Anita Lustrea and Melinda Schmidt, has been expanded from nine to ten weeks. Today, we only got through the introduction, “Seeing Beyond Ourselves.” Anita and Melinda generate a lively discussion and really get into the subject matter. I love working with them!

I’ve added Wheaton College to my “Windy City” itinerary. On Tuesday, April 12, I’ll be participating in a couple of classes and possibly a “Fireside Chat” with students.

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